In spite of this I still want you.
To preface this post I want to introduce you to myself. I am a deeply broken person. Emotionally I have been crushed beyond repair time and time again. Physically I have been ravaged by severe depression. Mentally I have been crippled by anxiety disorder. Spiritually I am in a constant battle with lust and laziness. My life has been tainted by self-harm, an addiction to pornography, bitterness, and an incessant need to be right. I often joke that I am heartless – and if you saw how I have treated many people you would probably agree. I am unqualified to lead anyone and unworthy to even speak the precious name of Jesus.
This brings up the huge question of “How could God use me, let alone want me?”
Why would God call me to ministry when I’m such a dirty soul? Why would God lead me to desire a husband and children when I’m such a hot mess? Doesn’t God see how crazy that is? Doesn’t God realize that someone else could do so much better?
My question is answered in II Corinthians 4:7-10, 13-15, “Now we have this treasure in clay jars, so that this extraordinary power may be from God and not from us. We are pressured in every way but not crushed; we are perplexed but not in despair; we are persecuted but not abandoned; we are struck down but not destroyed. We always carry the death of Jesus in our body, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. And since we have the same spirit of faith in keeping with what is written, ‘I believed, therefore I spoke,’ we also believe, and therefore speak. We know that the One who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and present us with you. Indeed, everything is for your benefit, so that grace, extended through more and more people, may cause thanksgiving to increase to God’s glory.”
Treasure in jars of clay.. Have you ever seen someone hide their life’s savings in a coffee pot? That’s some crazy redneck stuff right there. We see that and laugh. It’s ridiculous to think that a coffee pot is safe enough, good enough to house a fortune. Yet this is exactly what God does with us. His infinite sense of humor – oops I mean infinite wisdom – takes joy in using the foolish things in life. I Corinthians 1:27-29 hammers this home as it reads “Instead, God has chosen what is foolish in the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world to shame the strong. God has chosen what is insignificant and despised in the world—what is viewed as nothing—to bring to nothing what is viewed as something, so that no one can boast in His presence.” God probably has more than a million reasons to do what He does, specifically when it comes to using clay jars to hold His treasure, and we won’t know all of these reasons on this side of heaven. However, I’ve come to realize that if I was “good enough” that I would be boasting in myself and not in God’s transforming power. It is better for me to be a scuffed up clay jar, empty for the Master’s purposes, than to be a beautiful, porcelain Russian nesting doll (full of myself).
Pressured in every way.. God knows all that we deal with. Is the One who made ears deaf, or the One who made eyes blind? He sees each hardship that we face. He sees the damage from broken relationships. He sees that our most consistent habit is most often failure. He sees all of Satan’s taunts, meant to break us even further, and in the midst of that He still picks up our faces to look at Him. Saint Augustine is credited with the quote “In my deepest wound I saw Your glory and it astounded me.” That’s the point. Our brokenness is a magnifying glass to God’s wholeness. I can point to Him so much better from my hardships than I could if all of my ideal scenarios always came to pass.
We carry His death.. Okay y’all, Sunday School question time. If Christ’s sacrifice could be summed up in one word, what would that word be? GRACE. It’s all grace. And if I had no need for that grace, how would I lift it up as my lifeline? Jesus came for the lost (Matthew 18:11), sick (Luke 5:31; Mark 2:17), crooks/perverts/liars/thieves/abusers/scoundrels (Luke 19:10), and every other synonym you could think of for people like me (Luke 4:18-19). I carry His death in my body through my need for it. I need His death (read: grace) or else even my best efforts are complete toast. I cannot boast in anything other than the fact that Christ died and rose again in order to draw me close to Himself.
I believed, therefore I spoke.. This quote is a throwback to Psalm 116:10. Psalm 116 is a script of thanksgiving over God’s deliverance. The psalmist describes himself as crushed, close to death, troubled, inexperienced, and helpless. Yet, “I believed, even when I said, ‘I am severely afflicted’.” God’s grace was extended to him at his darkest, at his farthest. Paul now quotes this passage and continues by saying “.. We also believe, and therefore speak, knowing that the One who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus..” Flash forward to Romans 8:11, “And if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead lives in you, then He who raised Christ from the dead will also bring your mortal bodies to life through His Spirit who lives in you.” Drops mic. Cue for organ music and cartwheels to commence.
Overflow of thanksgiving.. This is it. Jesus reaches the lost, the sick, the crooks, the perverts, the liars, the thieves, the abusers, the scoundrels, the poor, the captives, the blind, and the oppressed. He does this so that even more rascals can be reached through the former’s testimonies. Grace has a special way of abounding. I am proof of that.
God uses the ugly clay jars to further His kingdom. I am so broken that all I am good for is spreading His grace – and that is more than enough. He uses me in spite of myself as a testimony to His power and unconditional love.
To end this I wanted to share a story of Jesus knowingly using someone who was entirely incapable of what Jesus called him to. This account comes from John 21:15-17. To set the scene, Jesus has just scared the crap out of everyone by coming back from the dead. He’s having breakfast with His disciples on the beach (Oh Jesus, how disgustingly romantic). Peter is feeling pretty stupid and rightfully so. A few short days before he had denied even knowing Jesus three times. I doubt he’s even up to looking Jesus in the eye. I know I wouldn’t want to look Him in those big, beautiful, disgustingly romantic eyes after that. Jesus gets down to the nitty gritty and confronts Peter with his new mission.
Bonus Greek lesson for you so that this story will make sense – there is more than one word for love. First, there is “agapao” – which holds the connotation of God’s unconditional love. Second, there is “phileo” – which holds the connotation of human, brotherly love.
Okay – transcript from breakfast on the beach.
Jesus: Peter, do you agapao Me?
Peter: Yes, Lord, You know that I phileo You
Jesus: Feed My lambs (read: Spread My truth)
*pause*
Jesus: Peter, do you agapao Me?
Peter: Yes, Lord, You know that I phileo You
Jesus: Shepherd My sheep (read: Lead My people)
*pause – Peter is real butt hurt now*
Jesus: Peter, do you phileo Me?
Peter: Yes, Lord, You know everything, You know that I phileo You
Jesus: Feed My sheep (read: Give your life to further the advance of My grace)
Jesus asked Peter twice if he could love Him the way that He loves Peter – knowing that he can’t. Peter answers truthfully, acknowledging the limitations of being a broken person. The best Peter can do is love Him and His people out of a flawed, human heart. Jesus asks for more than that. He asks for a holy, all-consuming, powerful love. In Peter’s case, it’s not just that he can’t give that kind of love right now. It’s not something he can work towards. It’s something that he is entirely incapable of. Jesus knows that. Jesus finally asks for Peter’s best, which is mere brotherly love, and charges him with a job that requires way more than that. Peter doesn’t know it yet but Jesus is going to fill him with His Spirit and thus provide the otherworldly love that he will need. Jesus will fill his clay jar with treasure.
Jesus does the exact same with us – accepting our brokenness with the ultimate plan of filling us with His wholeness. He uses us, wants us, and loves us in spite of ourselves. Hallelujah.